5 Questions Will Determine If He Is Right for You

Truly no relationship is perfect, but some signs can help you know if he is the guy you should spend the rest of your life with. So ask yourself the following five questions about your partner.

1. Quitter or Keeper?

If your man lets you walk away without any fight, then it could only mean two things: either he was never invested or he knows deep down that you are too good for him. Your first real fight will determine if he is a quitter or a keeper. Are you the one who is always apologizing or fixing things when clearly your partner is in the wrong? If yes, then you are with someone who has no desire to help nurture the relationship. This person does not have much self-value and is definitely not the one for you.

2. Is He Judgmental?

Does your other half frequently criticize you? Do you have to act differently around him than you do with your friends and family? If the answer is yes to any of these questions, you need to ask yourself whether you really want to spend your life that way. You deserve to have a guy by your side who accepts you and loves you for who you are. One of the biggest signs that he is not the one is that you feel like you are being judged all the time. If you feel like you cannot be yourself or he is judging you when you are being yourself, then he is not the one. The right guy will never judge you.

3. Are You Being Lied To?

If he lies to you, even if it is about something seemingly insignificant like where he has been, where he is going or who he has been hanging out with, then you need to end your relationship, regardless of how much you like him. These sorts of lies are hurtful and are a big clue of what is coming later on. You would not want to be with a compulsive liar, would you?

4. What Does Your Instinct Say?

You and your loved one may seem perfect on paper, but if your instincts are telling you that he is not the one for you, you got to listen and trust your gut feeling. At the end of the day, the most significant relationship you can have is with yourself; if your inner voice is not a fan of your man, then know that he is not the right guy. If he were, your instincts would have told you.

5. How Do You Feel When He Is Around?

A healthy relationship fosters inner calm and confidence and makes you feel comfortable and wanted. Although no relationship rids us of all our insecurities and concerns, a healthy relationship should not add to them either. Of course, it is lonely when he avoids you, but if you also feel lonely when you are with him, this means he is incapable of letting you in. If something does not feel right with your guy or if being around him makes you doubt yourself, he is probably not right for you.