As for using what you have to get what you want, you need to understand that there are definitely things that are more important than just what you want in life and there are dozens of alternative ways to achieve them if they are im­portant.
The purpose of God for your life and the legacy you will leave on earth after your existence are more important than temporary self-satisfaction. Good name is better than riches. PROSTI­TUTE is not a good name. It is an impediment to your destiny and it can affect the destiny of your children (God’s heritage), if any. But there is hope for you.
“Before I formed thee in the belly, I knew thee; and before thou camest forth out of the womb, I sanctified thee” (Jere­miah 1:5 KJV).
If you understand that God created you so that you will be a blessing to other people on earth, there is no way you can do some of the things you do.
You are not in this world for you alone. There are hundreds of young innocent minds in your street, apartment, office, church or town who see you as models. There is no opportuni­ty to explain to them that you are not so happy with the idea of sleeping around to get mon­ey, but that you are just doing it for A, B, C reasons. You don’t even know them but they have observed and registered your lifestyle as a standard or prop­er norm. They have even made up their minds that your dimen­sion of prostitution is little com­pared to what they would do in future, when they attain your age or status. So, your life has an impact (positive or negative) on the destiny of many people. You see that God’s judgement is near you, concerning those you have led astray with your lifestyle in this world, against his will.
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The truth is that you can never know the purpose of God for your life except you discov­er the God of the purpose. He created you; you did not create yourself (Psalm 100:3).
God did not send you into this world to expose your life to ritual killers in the streets and hotels at night just to have sex and receive money. You are more valuable than that. He did not create you to come to this earth and die faster than his plan by contracting sexu­ally transmitted diseases. This is why there is hope of mercy and healing for even those that are already victims of diseases, if only they can repent.
God has not sent you to live in the fear of tomorrow and cheapen yourself to the extent of destroying his temple.
“Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the spirit of God dwelleth in you? If any man defiles the temple of God, him shall God destroy; for the temple of God is holy, which temple ye are” (1Corin­thians 3:16-17 KJV).
God did not send you into this world to traffic people to hell by coordinating pre-mari­tal sex as your profession. God could not have sent you into this world to work against his will by marrying your spouse, only to toil with his or her emotions through your infidelity. By the way, God may never honour your prayers if you dishonour your spouse in anyway, includ­ing infidelity (1Peter 3:7 KJV).
Momentary pleasure has al­ways and will ever be destruc­tive. Therefore, always car­ry your brain along whenever your heart begins to misbehave or manifest lust. Think.
All the prostitute’s argu­ments have terrible implica­tions. There is possibility of a damaged womb and childless­ness after several abortions and systemic complications and in­fections. This is against God’s plans for you.
A scandalous future is in the waiting; this can affect your marital life and even create spiritual and moral burden for your children. There is an im­age problem, even for a corpo­rate prostitute, before God and man, except there is a repent­ance and encounter with Jesus Christ.
Exposure to dangers of rape, ritual killing and sudden death is not God’s plan for his crea­ture but this is the plight of the prostitute.
Above all, by working against your creator’s will by misleading the younger gen­eration to think that corpo­rate, roadside, blow job or any form of prostitution is a posi­tive thing, you are an enemy of God and “God is angry with the wicked everyday (Psalm 7:11).
But THERE IS HOPE FOR YOU. Jesus Christ died for peo­ple like you. He did not die for nothing. No matter how terribly deep you are into this sin of for­nication or adultery, he can for­give you. Surrender your life to Jesus right now.
Say this prayer from your heart: “Lord Jesus. I come to you as I am. Please, forgive me my sins. Have mercy on me. Write my name in the book of life. Take over my life from today. Thank you Jesus for coming into my life in Jesus name. Amen! Congratulations. You are born again now. Isn’t this amazing? Go and sin no more. Your mar­riage shall be a blessing and a testimony in Jesus name”.
See more details in the book, MAKING YOUR MARRIAGE WORK by Albinus Chiedu.
Your marriage shall be a miracle and a testimony in Je­sus name (Amen).